aline
also ich hab grad aus langeweile einen neuen smilie gebastelt. nich sehr originell, aber was verlangt man wenn man das in 5 min gemacht hat? ich wollt wissen wie ihr den findet und ob der nich in die aktuelle smilieliste eingefügt werden sollte. ich hab überlegt, ob ich nich noch ein paar mache, aber die dauern dann länger, weil die etwas aufwendiger sind. also hier erstmal der smilie:

naja, so toll isser nich, aber naja.
was sagt ihr?
aline

MrsWyle
Also ich finde es sollten eh mehr Smilies zur Auswahl stehen. Die acht drücken zwar schon die meisten Emotionen aus, aber ein paar mehr wär nicht schlecht.
Zu deinem Smilie sag ich nur: Super*g*

allujuNeutral
öhm...hast du mal über die 8 smilies geguckt? da steht doch mit so einem stern (*) Smilies. klick da mal rauf und dann werden dir noch weitere smilies angezeigt. aber die haben so viel mit krieg zu tun. deshalb würde ich es besser finden, wenn da vielleicht ein paar "nettere" wären.
ihr könnt ja auch mal ein paar beispiele machen, wenn ihr wollt.
aline

goegeli
ein cooles smilie.
ja die anderen sind wirklich ein wenig kriegerisch...
greez corinne

kexi
naja die anderen passen net so wirklich zu uns netten mädchen, aber ja, es sollten schon noch ein paar ganz niediche smileys her. alina, wenn du so viel freizeit hast nichts dagegen. find ich gut.

kexi
http://www.only-in-dreams.org/noah/pics/wallpaper/susie2.jpg
leute bitte geht da hin und seht euch dieses wallpaper an, ich wär fast gestorben, wie ich es gesehen hab.
bei only-in-dreams.org bei multimedia sin noch viele andere ...

goegeli
wow, nicht schlecht.
rate mal was jetzt meinen bildschirm ziert... !
greez corinne

kexi
ja, meinen ziert es auch. *freu* des is so schön, wenn man den pc aufdreht und wer schaut dichan? NOAH

noahwylefan
ich find, dass das Bild komisch aussieht......und wisst ihr auch warum????? und zwar weil das gespiegelt wurde....müsst ihr mal mit einem grafikprogramm zurückspiegeln...dann sieht es besser aus......
Ich hab nämlich die Zeitung....wo das Bild drinne war und da gab es mehrere Bilder mit ihm...und da konnte man deutlich sehen, dass es gespiegelt war, weil die Augenbraue auf dem anderem Bild ganz anders war usw.......
Es sieht wirklich besser aus, wenn man es spiegelt......

JanaWyle
Ich hätte fast geflennt for freude als ich das bild gesehen habe! Das ist so wahnsinnig süüß! Danke Kexi! Wenn du noch mehr solche schönen Bilder von ihm hast mach das immer so. Ich flehe dich an!

JanaWyle
Sorry das ich noch ma nerven muss aber Nadine du sagtest das du die Zeitschrift hast wo das bild drin ist? Was war denn das für eine? Und du könntest doch die Bilder auf die homepage bringen, oder? Und noch was: Wieso machen wir nicht noch ein Thema auf wo wir Links zu solchen tollen Bildern machen können?

kexi
ja nadine, ich weiß, ich hab das auch gesehen und ich habs auch gespielt und es schaut wirklich besser aus, wenns andersrum is.

MrsWyle
Jana mach doch einfach so ein Thema auf. Können wir doch hier als Unterthema bei den Bildern haben. Verstehst du was ich meine?*g*

MrsWyle
Oder man eröffnet dazu ein Thema bei Links. Ist ja auch egal wo.

allujuNeutral
also das is wirklich der witzigste smily der ganzen liste!!

*lol*

noahwylefan
naja ich würd sagen, wir eröffnen dann hier in dem Bilderbereich ein Thema, okay?
Also die Bilder von der Zeitschrift habe ich auch auf meiner Homepage......müsst ihr mal gucken...unter Bilder...dann von fotoshootings usw. und dann von der vorletzten Zeile die letzten beiden Bilder und von der letzten Zeile die ersten beiden Bilder. Die kommen aus der Zeitschrift Psychology Today....aber leider gibt das Interview dadrin nicht so viel her. Es wird eher über die Terroranschläge und so gesprochen und wenig über Noah selbst...ich kann es euch ja mal abtippen.....

noahwylefan
So, ich hat nen bisschen Zeit und hab den guten Text abgetippt, wer es sich durchlesen will. Der kann es ruhig machen......obwohl Noah nicht so ausgebreitet wird ist es trotzdem recht aufschlussreich:

Noah Wyle and Real-Life Trauma
Popularly known for his role as a Doctor on television's top-rated drama, "ER," Noah Wyle has put bedside manners to the test by helping real trauma victims
Noah Wyle is not a doctor. Nor is a psychologist. And he's not suffering from a mental illness. But he has seen, firsthand, the face of one poignant and prevalent disorder, and it was enough to spur him into action.
"There isn't a face -- it's every face," Wyle responds when I ask him to describe the face of post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD, a debilitating condition that some people develop after experiencing or witnessing an extremely traumatic event. The 30-year old actor and star of NBC's "ER" had flown to New York City the day before to speak out about recognising and treating the disorder. And these days, everyone is listening.
When terrorists attacked the country on September 11, naturally our first concern was rescuing victims, particularly those who might alive amid the World Trade Centre rubble. Soon, however, it became apparent that not only had few survived the collapse but that there was another population of survivor's to worry about: those left to grapple with memories of the tragedy. Mental health practitioners rushed to Ground Zero to aid those on the front lines -- fire fighters, police officers, even journalists covering the story - and soon many were predicting an epidemic of PTSD.
The disorder is by no means a new one. It was first described during the Civil War as "irritable heart" by an army surgeon treating soldiers displaying symptoms including chest pains, disturbed sleep, depression, and irritability. Many refer to it as "combat fatigue" or "shell shock," and it's often associated with war veterans.
But PTSD isn't always a result of an act of war or terrorism. In fact, some of the most common traumas that lead to the disorder include being raped, being sexually or physically assaulted and experiencing the sudden, unexpected death of a loved one. About 20 percent of the people who experience an extreme trauma will develop the disorder, according to one study published in the Journal of Consulting Clinical Psychology, and women seem twice as susceptible to PTSD, most likely because they are more often victims of rape, sexual assault and child abuse.
Women also make up the majority of PTSD sufferers with whom Wyle has come into contact. In 1999, Wyle spent three weeks in a Macedonian refugee camp during the war in Kosovo with Doctors of the World, a non-profit organization that provides medical care to the needy and had approached him about doing charity work.
"I was supposed to be there in an observing capacity so that I could speak intelligently about their work," Wyle admits. "But a bus would pull up with 600 people in it and women were handing their kids to me, people were running for ambulances and medical supplies, and I'm there just to watch? I don't think so." Of the camp's 10,000 refugees, most were women and many of them had witnessed the murder of their husband or confided they had been sexually assaulted.
"There was a certain hollowness in their eyes, a certain manic behaviour," Wyle says. "I would see women scrubbing the wash, the same patch of a piece of clothing, for two or three hours. There were trying to get back into some routine of normal life, but in the refugee camp nothing was familiar." This kind of behaviour is typical of a PTSD sufferer and falls into one of three sets of diagnostic symptoms associated with the disorder: avoiding reminders of the traumatic event.
"PTSD is stimulus-driven," explains Matthew Freidman, M.D., Ph.D., the executive director of the Department of Veterans' Affairs National Centre for PTSD and a psychiatry and pharmacology professor at Dartmouth Medical School. "Stimuli that resemble the trauma are going to bring that trauma back to the victims. So part of the PTSD involves numbing, emotional shutdown and avoidance." The second set of symptoms focus on sufferers' tendency to continually relive the event, both while sleeping in the form of nightmares and wide awake, when flashbacks occur. These images cause extreme emotional or physical reactions, including shaking, chills, heart palpitations and panic. The final set concentrates on hyper arousal, as victims are prone to irritability, sudden anger, startling easily or being unable to concentrate.
How an individual responds to a traumatic event depends in par, on what he or she brings to the table, Friedman points out. For instance, people who have experienced a prior trauma, have a family history of psychiatric problems or grew up in a disruptive household or with abusive parents are at greater risk for developing symptoms. Amount of social support and degree of resiliency - which has both a genetic and experiential component - also play important roles.
"Most of us were impacted by September 11," says Ray Monsour Scurfield, D.S.W., L.C.S.W., an assistant professor of social work at the University of Southern Mississippi. "But after a few months, it started taking somewhat of a backseat for some people and less of a backseat for others. The key is questioning whether a person feels their memories are beyond control. If they're wallowing in isolation and denial and painful memories - if they're a prisoner to them - it's time to seek help."
This psychological imprisonment is something Wyle likens to piercing together jigsaw puzzles. "If you do the same puzzle every day, you get the same picture every day because you've got the same pieces," he says. "But if you wake up one morning and something traumatic happens, when you put your pieces together, nothing fits right. And when you do get them to fit it makes a different picture, one somewhat grotesque. Ultimately, you just want your picture to look like it always did, but it's never going to look that way again."
After witnessing the refugees' anguish, Wyle knew he wanted to do more to help victims of trauma and violence. So when he returned to the U.S. he began working with Human Rights Watch, a human rights advocacy group. Then Dr. Carter, the character he plays on "ER," was stabbed on the show, and Wyle found himself portraying many of the symptoms he'd witnessed in Macedonia. That's when Moving Past Trauma (MPT), a community outreach program that works to increase awareness about and treatment of PTSD, asked him to be one of their spokesmen. He agreed and soon began working with Kellie Green, another program spokeswoman.
What's noteworthy about Greene is that she's also a PTSD survivor, thought by looking at her today one would never guess that there was a time when she was afraid to step foot outside her apartment. The energetic, outgoing, 36-year-old is constantly smiling and seems ready and able to take on the world. But on January 18, 1994, Greene was attacked and brutally raped by a stranger who had followed her home. She was traumatized and subsequently unable to concentrate or make simple decisions. She also began isolating herself from her family and friends and was plagued by nightmares and flashbacks of rape.
"Flashbacks are powerful and very frightening," Greene tells me the same morning I meet Wyle. The two were scheduled to speak throughout the day at several venues including "The Today Show" and the YWCA, which helped launch MPT's program. "You go back to the moment the trauma was happening and re-experience it; your body has all the senses of it reoccurring." Her symptoms were unrelenting for about six months, until one night she found herself sobbing uncontrollably in the shower and contemplating suicide. Greene called her mother for help, who made an appointment with a psychiatrist the next morning.
"I told him everything I was going through, and then he opened a book and read all of my symptoms back to me," Greene says. "He said, 'It's post-traumatic stress disorder,' and just having him validate it calmed me down." She was prescribed Zoloft, an antidepressant and selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor (SSRI), to help assuage her symptoms. Zoloft and Paxil, also an antidepressant and SSRI, are currently the only two drugs approved by the FDA for treating PTSD. Greene's psychiatrist then worked with her for six months using cognitive restructuring - a form of cognitive behavioural therapy - along with teaching her breathing exercises that helped alleviate her panic attacks.
"The classic principle that applies to almost every PTSD therapeutic re-experiencing of an aspect of the original trauma," explains Scurfield. "The person has to learn to master the memory and be able to revisit the trauma in a way that's not overwhelming." Fortunately, the rate of recovery from PTSD is high - particularly if recognised early on - and there are numerous types of therapy for treating it. But because this field of research is relatively new, there is little empirical evidence confirming what works best and for whom.
"The evidence suggests that cognitive behavioural treatments are most effective for PTSD," Friedman says. "But a large number of people in treatment receive two types of treatment, maybe even more." The most typical combination is some form of psychotherapy plus pharmacotherapy, one that seems to have done the trick for Greene.
"I feel really good today," Greene now says. Fully recovered, she devotes her time to promoting awareness of PTSD. She began speaking publicly about her own experiences seven years ago when she joined the speakers' bureau of the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network. She also formed her own organization, Speaking Out About Rape, where she works daily with other rape survivors.
"It was difficult at first to talk in front of a large group because the wounds were so fresh," Greene confesses. "But by sharing my experience, it was no longer a random act of violence; it had a purpose." That purpose has taken on added meaning since the events of September 11, which Greene watched unfold on television.
"I could really identify with what fire-fighters were feeling," she says. "I knew the dark place that these people were going to in the months that followed. It's hell." Wyle, too, had a strong personal response to the attack. He observed the aftermath while in Los Angeles after his mother called and told him to run to his television.
"I was shocked when I saw one shot of a thousand people walking across the Brooklyn Bridge; it looked just like a thousand refugees going across the border from Kosovo to Macedonia," Wyle says. "I was pretty dedicated [to MPT] before the attack, but if anything, I feel validated in that what we were talking about before was timely and important."
Fortunately research suggests that most people will not develop PTSD in response to September 11. Studies show that the severity and duration of an individual's exposure to a traumatic event strongly influence the likelihood of developing PTSD. Consequently, people close to it - those in the World Trade Centre when the planes hit, for instance, or those who witnessed people jumping from windows - are more susceptible than are the majority of Americans who watched the tragedy on television.
For those who develop PTSD, symptoms most likely appear within a few days of the traumatic event. Friedman emphasizes, however, that symptoms can take months - and sometimes years - to surface. Even so, experts now assert that the original prediction of a PTSD epidemic after September 11 was premature and that most of us should expert normal and full recovery to take place. They also stress that experiencing symptoms of stress, anxiety and depression is a fairly predictable, well-understood response to a catastrophic event. But that doesn't imply we should ignore symptoms if they arise and linger.
"New York City has been inspirational in so many ways to people in the rest of the country," Wyle says. "But if I was going to speak to anybody here about PTSD, I'd say 'Really check in with yourself.' If you're having trouble sleeping, if images are invading your life, if you find yourself becoming desensitised, then definitely seek out medical help. The city seems to be coping very well, but that doesn't mean we should forget that there are a lot of people suffering that need not be."